my nan is being moved into a care home, she doesnt want to but my mum thinks she needs to go, is this right?

Posted December 30th, 2008

thisisveryodd asked: im split because my nan is extremely nervous and such a worrier and shes nicely settled in her flat at themoment. the flat she is in is in an apartment house for elder people and has a warden but she leaves at 5pm so there is no night supervision. it is independent living [...]

Should we should save for retirement?

Posted December 28th, 2008

tweety asked: My husband and I are in our later thirties. We are planning to settle in Australia or Canada. Both of us do not have any good guidance from any experienced elders regarding anything in life. So far we have not saved a penny for our retirement. Experienced people please guide me on the [...]

If jesus was older and didn’t die early, and had the wisdom of an elder, would he have changed his thoughts?

Posted November 16th, 2008

Bluto Blutarsky7 asked: I mean jesus was what could be considered “liberal” at the time.
most liberal college students become more moderate later in life when they realize the reality of the world.
If jesus lived till 50 or 60, would he have changed his thinking to be more in line with reality and worked within [...]

CALIFORNIANS! What do you think about the new law?

Posted June 14th, 2008

Katie asked: That bans people from smoking in cars with children under 18?
Some are saying it’s an invasion of their private rights, since they own the cars.
Others say its a good thing because, of course, you can’t exactly get out of a car with your parents or elders when you’re on your way somewhere. [...]

What happens to an elderly person’s credit card debt when they die?

Posted March 12th, 2008

kath0362 asked: My brother-in-law is running up my mother-in-law’s credit cards. She is 89 and clueless. If asked, she would have approved all of his purchases. He is on her joint checking account. He is single, (twice divorced…58 years old…no assets) He is her primary caregiver and has handled all her finances [...]

how to handle my non dog mother in law?

Posted January 29th, 2008

♥lillypad♥ [[bun-in-my-tum]] asked: hi im having some in law issues. my husbands mother is a real b*tch. woo there i said it! but she came from mexico and is staying with us for about 6 months, and she really doesnt like dogs. problem is, we have 16 in our house currently. [...]